Do you have a repetitive thought pattern that ruins your self-confidence?

I wonder how many times people repeat a thought pattern they picked up, quite likely, in childhood?  A message that they repeat  unconsciously at critical times in their lives and it pricks the bubble  of confidence and possibility, switching off the light within?

It is so common for individuals to unquestioningly repeat some message – complete or otherwise that tells them that they are useless, or that they will not amount to much because they didn’t try hard enough at school etc.  It might be a parent’s voice or a teacher’s?  But it runs and runs.  How many years ago did you hear this?  Many, and perhaps only once, but heard at some particularly vulnerable moment – which then set the justification to look for validation of that comment, and so the pattern became really hardwired.   These messages, these limiting beliefs that are run in your head, can limit so much pleasure and possibility, and diminish your perception of the real successes that you have achieved.

By understanding how these messages happen, you can change them and get rid of them.  You can become the master of your messages rather than the servant.  Imagine how much time and life is wasted running these pointless, valueless limiting beliefs, and how much more effective your life would be if you only ran those that were useful and empowering.  Imagine only running beliefs based on your actual experience of your successes – for you most certainly will have many examples to draw from. 

Neuro linguistic programming is immensely effective at reprogramming the messages you run, and can do this swiftly and lastingly. 

Sometimes individuals suddenly become aware of the need to do something different with their thinking, or perhaps a sense of malaise that has just drifted along for some considerable time becomes really apparent.  For instance - you might doubt that you can challenge your boss regarding a very justifiable issue, or perhaps you find that your relationships with your partner and children are falling apart, or it feels as though no one really values you.  NLP and coaching using NLP strategies will make a difference in your thinking and functioning that will amaze you. 

Get motivated!  Boost your self-confidence!  Become more effective!  Become more decisive!  Have better relationships with your partner, your children, your boss, your colleagues, your employees, your family, your friends!  Have better health! Have more energy!  See the world in brighter colours! Feel happy!  Let the sounds that bring you joy, be heard!  Manage your life, work and finances more skilfully and effectively than you thought you ever could!

Get control!  Run only the empowering beliefs!  Learn strategies that are really useful!

I f you want to make a real difference in your life, a difference that will delight and really enthuse you , and want to make that difference more quickly and lastingly than you thought possible,  contact Clara Gibson at ‘Make that Difference’. info@makethatdifference.org  02084604294 07957739355